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Finding our Face Mode: courage, coaching and Covid:19
I am using these four Fs as a framework for sense making in our current contexts. The lockdown, stay at home, stay alert; all bring with it a number of challenges as we make sense of our new normal. How long this will last and what we will return to on 1st June, if we are leading a school, or in the months ahead. We don’t know. But sense making our unknowns is where coaching can come to its fore.
Well, who hasn’t felt vulnerable and frightened in the last 9 weeks. Fearful about our health, our family’s wellbeing, our students, our work, our future. I remember the eerily quietness one Sunday morning being shattered by a siren, and feeling frightened, the first time I went to the Supermarket, feeling frightened, taking my daughter on a car drive, to get her out of the house and help her with her mental health, feeling frightened. The list goes on.
In my own behaviours and my own self coaching conversation, I have moved through my own fright, flight, fight and face modes. Our strength comes from acknowledging each of these emotional spaces. Coaching provides the space to navigate these spaces, to sense make and find courage to face Covid:19.
Receiving my CollectivED Fellowship on 14th April, I am struck again by the feedback; It's evident that your practice goes deep and that you create spaces where people can think effectively for themselves.
So, thinking effectively for ourselves. Yes, I am talking about How do we take the F Word out of Coaching? at the forthcoming CollectivED webinar.
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