Leeds for introverts

When I first arrived in Leeds, I felt totally out of my comfort zone. I’d moved to a brand new city on my own and I wasn’t sure how I’d fit in, especially since nights out and big social events aren’t really my thing. I remember thinking, “What if I don’t click with anyone?” or “Will people think I’m boring just because I prefer a quiet coffee shop to a club?”. I soon learnt there are so many ways to enjoy university life as an introvert and so many others who feel exactly the same way.

Get to know the city

I started by wandering around the city centre at my own pace, soaking in the atmosphere, and learning where everything was. It was a nice way to get to know the city without feeling pressured by crowds or events. What I loved most was discovering the little pockets of calm amidst the city’s energy - places that felt like a refuge when I needed some peace.

One of my favourite places to visit is the Corn Exchange. It’s such a charming spot, filled with independent shops and unique food spots. Whether I’m treating myself to a coffee or just window shopping, it’s a perfect place to spend a relaxing afternoon. There’s something really comforting about being in a space that’s busy enough to feel alive but quiet enough to enjoy a moment on my own.

Another spot I love for solo adventures is Kirkstall Abbey. It’s a bit outside the city centre, but it’s totally worth the visit. The ruins are beautiful, and it’s so peaceful walking through the grounds. I’ve spent hours there just walking around, thinking, or even reading a book. It was one of the first places that made Leeds feel like home for me.

Of course, there’s also Roundhay Park, which I’m sure many students will recommend. I often go there to clear my head, take in the greenery, and even watch the swans on the lake. It’s a great place to feel like you’re getting away from the city, but you’re still so close to everything.

Coffee, books and chill vibes

If there’s one thing I quickly realised about Leeds, it’s that it’s a city that truly caters to us introverts, especially if you love coffee and books like I do. One of my favourite spots is Waterstones in the city centre. With three floors of books and a cosy café, I could spend hours there, either reading or getting some work done in peace.

And, of course, there’s Café Brigante. It’s at the bottom of Briggate and has the best tiramisu I’ve ever had in my life. Honestly, just writing this makes me want to go back! It’s a quiet, relaxed place that feels like a secret gem. Whether I’m meeting a friend or just grabbing something to go, it’s one of those places I keep coming back to. Sometimes it’s nice to just sit there with a book, drink my coffee, and watch the world go by.

Then there’s Sonder Café, which has a calm, artsy vibe that I absolutely love. It’s the perfect place for an afternoon pick-me-up with some of the best pastries in town. It’s also a great spot to bring a notebook and do a little journaling or planning. On some days, I’ll go there when I need to clear my head and just soak in the peaceful atmosphere. There’s a kind of magic to spending time in places like this, where the world slows down a bit, and you can just be.

But the cherry on top for me is always finding a café that feels like home. I’ve made my way to so many little spots around Leeds, and every time I discover a new one, it gives me the biggest serotonin boost. Whether it’s the perfect spot for a quiet moment of reflection or a place to meet someone for a low-key catch-up, Leeds has no shortage of spots that make you feel right at home, even when you’re flying solo.

Low-key social activities

If the thought of nights out and crowded clubs doesn’t appeal to you, don’t worry - there are plenty of ways to meet new people without stepping too far out of your comfort zone. One of my favourite activities is the Run Club at BOX Bar, which meets every Wednesday evening. It’s a relaxed 5k run through some of the most scenic parts of Leeds, and it’s a great way to get moving while meeting others who enjoy a more active lifestyle. After the run, you can grab discounted food and drinks, and it’s a nice, easy way to socialise without the pressure of big events.

Another great way to connect with others is by joining a community. Whether you're into writing, fitness, or something more niche, there’s a community for you. Plus, it’s a fun way to get involved without having to commit to large social gatherings if that’s not your thing.

There are also tons of student events that are less about partying and more about enjoying something low-key, like quiz nights, craft workshops, or movie screenings. It’s all about finding the activities that align with your vibe and slowly stepping into new social circles at your own pace.

Leeds is a fantastic city to explore, it’s got the perfect balance of bustling energy and peaceful spots, so you can enjoy your own company while still having the chance to step outside your comfort zone when you're ready. Whether it’s discovering new places to unwind or finding low-key ways to connect with others, Leeds has something for everyone, even us folk who prefer the quiet side of life.

I hope these tips help you feel more comfortable and excited about your time at Leeds Beckett. University life doesn’t have to follow any set path - it’s about figuring out what works best for you, whether that’s embracing quiet moments or finding new ways to meet people in your own time. Trust me, you’ll find your vibe, and before long you’ll be making the most of everything this city has to offer.